Child Sexual Abuse

Understanding Child Sexual Abuse

Keeping children safe is everyone's responsibility, and as a parent or carer, you play an important role in helping your child stay safe.

Child sexual abuse happens when a child or young person is pressured, manipulated, groomed, or forced into sexual activity. It can happen in person or online and may be carried out by an adult, another child, or someone the child knows and trusts. Child sexual abuse is never the child's fault.

What should I look out for?

Every child is different, but some signs that may indicate something is wrong include:

• Sudden changes in behaviour or mood
• Becoming withdrawn, anxious, or upset
• Changes in sleep patterns
• Avoiding certain people or places
• Spending more time online or becoming secretive about online activity
• Receiving gifts, money, or items they cannot explain
• Changes in friendships or school attendance
• Self-harm or risk-taking behaviour

These signs do not always mean a child is being abused, but they may indicate they need support.

If a child talks to you

If your child tells you something that worries you:

✅ Stay calm and listen.

✅ Reassure them they have done the right thing by telling you.

✅ Let them know you believe them.

✅ Explain that what happened is not their fault.

✅ Seek advice and support.

❌ Don't promise to keep secrets.

❌ Don't ask lots of detailed questions.

❌ Don't confront the person you are worried about.

Trust your instincts

If something doesn't feel right, it's important to seek advice. You do not need proof to raise a concern. Early action can help protect a child and ensure they receive the support they need.

If a child is in immediate danger, call 999.

Helpful Information and Support

NSPCC

The NSPCC provides information about child sexual abuse, recognising the signs, talking to children, and getting support.

• NSPCC Child Sexual Abuse Information
  
• NSPCC Advice for Families
  
• NSPCC Helpline: 0808 800 5000

Childline

Free, confidential support for children and young people.

• https://www.childline.org.uk/
  

Centre of Expertise on Child Sexual Abuse (CSA Centre)

Evidence-based information about child sexual abuse and guidance for families and professionals.

• CSA Centre

Barnardo's

Advice and support for parents and carers who are concerned about child sexual abuse or exploitation.

• Barnardo's Support for Parents and Carers
  

Stop It Now! (Lucy Faithfull Foundation)

Confidential advice and support for adults who are worried about a child or concerned about someone's behaviour towards children.

• Stop It Now!

Worried About a Child?

If you are concerned that a child or young person may be at risk of abuse or neglect, please visit our Report a Concern page to find local safeguarding contacts and advice. Remember, it is always better to speak up if you are worried. Seeking advice could make a real difference to a child's life.

You do not need to be certain. If you're worried, tell someone.

'Talk Pants'

The NSPCC's 'Talk Pants' campaign helps children understand that their body belongs to them, and they should tell someone they trust if anything makes them feel upset or worried. 

Select this link to view and download information on this campaign, including guides for parents and guides for children. 

Keeping Children Safe in Sport

The NSPCC offers advice for parents and carers on helping children stay safe in sport and physical activities. The guidance covers choosing safe clubs, supporting children positively, recognising concerns, and knowing where to get help if needed.

Find out more on the NSPCC's Keeping Your Child Safe in Sport page.

Child Sex Offender Disclosure Scheme

The Home Office has produced information on the Child Sex Offender Disclosure Scheme which includes information for parents and for practitioners on the scheme which lets those who care for young people find out if a person has a record for child sexual offences.